Learning to Say No 学会说不
Before 35, I mistook harmony for kindness and kept saying yes. Only later did I learn that giving everything away does not always earn respect. 35 岁以前，我总是追求和谐、习惯 say yes，后来才明白没有边界的付出换不来尊重。
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All published MDX entries appear here automatically. 所有已发布的 MDX 内容都会自动出现在这里。
Trapped in the Present 被困在当下
We are limited by the body and the mind, unable to stand outside the present and see the whole arc of life. 我们被困在当下，是生理也是心性的局限，只能手握这一瞬，在迷茫里摸索前行。
Dinner by the Pond 又到塘边
A return to Northeastern food by the pond after nearly half a year away. 昨天到塘边吃东北菜，差不多快半年没来过了，恍如隔世。
A Book from My Father 父亲送我的那本书
On Father's Day, I found the illustrated Romance of the Three Kingdoms my father gave me in primary school. 父亲节那天，我从书架上翻出一本父亲在我上小学时送给我的插画版《三国演义》。
Dragon Boat Day in Quanzhou 端午泉州一日游
A one-day trip through Quanzhou on Dragon Boat Festival, from Guan Yu Temple to qiaopi letters and the lingering pull of home. 端午节到泉州特种兵一日游，从关帝庙到侨批馆，想到财富、书信和一个人在外的根。
A Follow-up Visit in Fuzhou 去福州复查
A long hospital follow-up day in Fuzhou, ending with dim sum and tea with my father. 凌晨四点陪父亲去福州协和医院复查，检查之后带他吃了一顿久违的茶点。